Once bitten, my son now fears all wasps,
bees – insects really – flying near our porch
or on his swing set. Twice, shy,
he has refused to go outside with me
today, hiding behind the safety of our walls
playing with toy cars, plastic trucks, and other
synthetic things. I want to keep him safe –
of course I do – but a world awaits him,
one with bee stings and honey,
blood red mosquito bites and
phosphorescent lightning bugs, itchy irritating
pollen clouds and sticky sweet maple syrup
and I must give a name to each of these today
so he can name his own world tomorrow.
We must take our lumps with sugar:
bees produce honey, pollen grows flowers,
and while I’m not sure mosquitoes
do anything pleasant, I spent many orange summer
dusks chasing lightning bugs and collecting lumps
And long to watch the joy in his eyes
as he braves the wilds of our back yard.
Phillip Knight Scott | © 2019
That’s refreshing to read. 🌻
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Thanks so much 🙂
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I love this. I was the child afraid after stepping on a ground wasps nest and finding yellow jackets nesting ion my doll carriage on the porch. Yet somehow my parents got me outside to enjoy the rest. I suspect it was marshmallows at the fire pit after sundown!
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Oh marshmallows …. good idea!
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This is lovely, a father’s wish to intoduce his son to the world…….may nature’s wild beauty lure him out the door. I suspect he will feel braver knowing you are by his side.
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I do hope so. Thanks so much 🙂
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Love how you’ve sketched the world outside. Beautiful.
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Thanks so much 🙂
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good dad. wish I’d had one. lucky son.
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Love the messages here
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Thanks 🙂
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Great post. I got stung by a wasp when I was 14 & it was horrible! But you go on.
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Yeah you get a little nervous for a while but get over it eventually. Once several hundreds of wasps DON’T sting you 🙂
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So beautiful
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Thanks so much, Beth!
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Yeah, we must learn to face the world and all it holds for us.
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Give him the gift of independence. Life comes with stings and bumps. Mosquitos feed bats and other things in the night. I am allergic to bee stings. I keep my epipen handy. Give him honey on his toast!
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Yes, yes, and yes! I would just say wow, that tiny little creature sure packs a punch! It isn’t big like you and me, so nature gave it its stinger to survive. Isn’t it amazing? How cool is that?
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It is very very cool! Amazing how something so small can scare even the biggest adult humans.
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This is so poignant! ❤️ I resonate with a father’s wish to introduce his son to the world 🙂
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Thanks so much 🙂
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I am sure your son will change and embrace the natural world and thoroughlly enjoy it too. Perhaps show him butterflies in the garden and explain how useful inscets are in fertilizing flowers and vegetables so he can see them as friends!
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Great idea! Thanks!
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I am sure with a dad like you, your son will find his way out there in the bigger world than he knows now.
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That’s so nice. Thanks!
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😊
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Wise words – He’ll be out soon. I live north of 40 – in age and the interstate (I live in NC as well)
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Thanks! I’m north of 40 too. It’s the only way to live.
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